faith, love & hope

那些年，我们一起追的女孩

jaelting — Mon, 21 Nov 2011 17:04:05 +0000

ego and pride separate two person apart. just like the ending of the movie, all things could have not ended that way, if the lead actor had humbled himself to talk to the lead actress. they may had been together.

do not be afraid to say what is in your heart to the person you love, even if it may seems foolishness to others.

after all, actually, it’s just all about the two of you.

thank you all who have love me

jaelting — Fri, 11 Nov 2011 16:00:31 +0000

痛在眼中变成泪在心中变成灰
Tong zai yan zhong bian cheng lei zai xin zhong bian cheng hui
没有什麽能安慰
Mei you shen me neng an wei
怕被时间变成累被想像变成悲
Pa bei shi jian bian cheng lei bei xiang xiang bian cheng bei
希望都被粉碎
Xi wang dou bei fen sui

不安有时会崩溃有时会怨怼
Bu an you shi hui beng kui you shi hui yuan dui
好像怎麽对待都不对
Hao xiang zen me dui dai dou bu dui
看得出你隐藏多少的疲惫
Kan de chu ni yin cang duo shao de pi bei
却还是坚持着爱不断加倍
Que hai shi jian chi zhe ai bu duan jia bei
让我感动也让我愧对
Rang wo gan dong ye rang wo kui dui

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谢谢你们爱我的每个人
Xie xie ni men ai wo de mei ge ren
在我的人生最像一场恶梦的旅程
Zai wo de ren sheng zui xiang yi chang e meng de lu cheng
陪我挣脱勇敢地去醒来
Pei wo zheng tuo yong gan di qu xing lai
当我的护卫为我祷告心灵更强韧
Dang wo de hu wei wei wo dao gao xin ling geng qiang ren

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谢谢你们爱我的每个人
Xie xie ni men ai wo de mei ge ren
让我努力後可以谢谢自己很坦诚
Rang wo nu li hou ke yi xie xie zi ji hen tan cheng
会想不通或绝望到躲开
Hui xiang bu tong huo jue wang dao duo kai
但你们做的总让我想坚强负责任
Dan ni men zuo de zong rang wo xiang jian qiang fu ze ren
为了爱重生
Wei le ai chong sheng

心摆脱夜的黑往蓝天而飞被阳光包围
Xin bai tuo ye de hei wang lan tian er fei bei yang guang bao wei
只为了你一句我笑得好美
Zhi wei le ni yi ju wo xiao de hao mei
我忍住了太漫长的泪
Wo ren zhu le tai man chang de lei

看得出你隐藏多少的疲惫
Kan de chu ni yin cang duo shao de pi bei
却还是坚持着爱不断地加倍
Que hai shi jian chi zhe ai bu duan di jia bei
让我感动也让我愧对
Rang wo gan dong ye rang wo kui dui

it’s been a year. how time has passed. just as the song lyrics had wrote,

thank you to all of you… all who have love me during these period of time. the time when i broke down. time when i’m lost. time when i lost all meanings and purposes of life.

thank you all. thank you for being my side when my life seems to be a nightmare.

thank you all. thank you for keeping me in prayers.

thank you all. thank you for helping me to stand up again.

and most importantly…

thank God for blessing me with the people around me, loves me for who i am, pulling me back when i’m at the edge and holding me through.

i can be stronger and who i am. because of all of You.

it’s too late if you regret at the time

jaelting — Fri, 04 Nov 2011 18:02:52 +0000

REGRETS OF THE DYING

For many years I worked in palliative care. My patients were those who had gone home to die. Some incredibly special times were shared. I was with them for the last three to twelve weeks of their lives.
People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality. I learnt never to underestimate someone’s capacity for growth. Some changes were phenomenal. Each experienced a variety of emotions, as expected, denial, fear, anger, remorse, more denial and eventually acceptance. Every single patient found their peace before they departed though, every one of them.When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently, common themes surfaced again and again. Here are the most common five:

1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.

It is very important to try and honour at least some of your dreams along the way. From the moment that you lose your health, it is too late. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it.

2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.

This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children’s youth and their partner’s companionship. Women also spoke of this regret. But as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.

By simplifying your lifestyle and making conscious choices along the way, it is possible to not need the income that you think you do. And by creating more space in your life, you become happier and more open to new opportunities, ones more suited to your new lifestyle.

3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.

Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.

We cannot control the reactions of others. However, although people may initially react when you change the way you are by speaking honestly, in the end it raises the relationship to a whole new and healthier level. Either that or it releases the unhealthy relationship from your life. Either way, you win.

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.

It is common for anyone in a busy lifestyle to let friendships slip. But when you are faced with your approaching death, the physical details of life fall away. People do want to get their financial affairs in order if possible. But it is not money or status that holds the true importance for them. They want to get things in order more for the benefit of those they love. Usually though, they are too ill and weary to ever manage this task. It is all comes down to love and relationships in the end. That is all that remains in the final weeks, love and relationships.

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called ‘comfort’ of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content. When deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again.

When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying.

Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly. Choose happiness.

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Based on this article, Bronnie has now released a full-length book, titled The Top Five Regrets of the Dying.
It may be ordered through bookstores worldwide or from Balboa Press.
Details for wholesale orders may be found on Bronnie’s official website.
It is also available via the link on this page.

apple supporter

jaelting — Sun, 09 Oct 2011 15:32:28 +0000

thank you steve for the great innovation. i can proudly say that i’m an apple supporter~ thank God for the Macbook, iPod Nano & iPhone that i have.

all things are from God

jaelting — Tue, 04 Oct 2011 15:35:35 +0000

thank God for the blessings and love.

i was jogging yesterday and Cate msg me to join the leaders meeting on Tuesday.

04/10/11 – 1st Leaders Meeting in JW, back to home. back to where it all started. my calling, my dream and vision which God had placed in me.

all promotion comes from God.
Thank you, Father.

D.I.S.C. Personality test

jaelting — Wed, 27 Jul 2011 02:52:09 +0000

just did a personality test that had been talking about near 10 years ago.

here’s my result.

http://www.123test.com/id=d37d22cf8bf1018f1

what faith can do

jaelting — Mon, 11 Jul 2011 07:11:03 +0000

nice song, good lyrics.

Everybody falls sometimes
Gotta find the strength to rise
From the ashes and make a new beginning
Anyone can feel the ache
You think it’s more than you can take
But you’re stronger, stronger than you know
Don’t you give up now
The sun will soon be shining
You gotta face the clouds
To find the silver lining

I’ve seen dreams that move the mountains
Hope that doesn’t ever end
Even when the sky is falling
I’ve seen miracles just happen
Silent prayers get answered
Broken hearts become brand new
That’s what faith can do

It doesn’t matter what you’ve heard
Impossible is not a word
It’s just a reason for someone not to try
Everybody’s scared to death
When they decide to take that step
Out on the water
It’ll be alright
Life is so much more
Than what your eyes are seeing
You will find your way
If you keep believing

Overcome the odds
You don’t have a chance
(That’s what faith can do)
When the world says you can’t
It’ll tell you that you can!

I’ve seen dreams that move the mountains
Hope that doesn’t ever end
Even when the sky is falling
And I’ve seen miracles just happen
Silent prayers get answered
Broken hearts become brand new
That’s what faith can do
That’s what faith can do!
Even if you fall sometimes
You will have the strength to rise

Jayeslee in CHC

jaelting — Sat, 09 Jul 2011 15:05:55 +0000

Jeyeslee was in church!!! and their voices are awesome. check out the video!

Sibu Mission Trip (02 July to 04 July 2011)

jaelting — Mon, 04 Jul 2011 16:57:19 +0000

Japan trip got postpone, so i can’t make it.

but i sign up for the Sibu Mission trip instead and was truly a great one!

Pro 11:25 says, “he who waters will also be watered himself.”

indeed i am!

japan

jaelting — Thu, 23 Jun 2011 16:09:01 +0000

http://ph.news.yahoo.com/magnitude-6-7-quake-hits-japan-223155632.html

faith, hope and love to be with Japan.

my prayer is with you. God’s presence and His blessing through me will be there in another week time.

Amen